Three Way Sex  - Threesome

 Threesome with your wife, or threesome with somebody's wife? Let's get kinky, what about threesome with your wife plus a bi sexual woman.

Would you like to double the pleasure? Are you looking for a threesome?

Would like to have three way casual sex relationship? Or just a three way one night stand up sex... Sex in male - female - male or female - male - female team?

If you are experienced in threesome sex, you do not need advice. Because you are here, I guess though that  you don't have too much experience. Threesomes are the same as everything else in the life. First you have to learn what to do and how to do it, and then practice it. Practice makes it perfect.

For a threesome we need a couple and a third person. The idea of let's have a threesome usually sparks out from the males brain. It  does happen because all the males are genetically designed to this way. One of the old gene controls the male's brain. If a healthy man meets with a pretty woman, sooner or later he will imagine her as a sex partner. The old gene wants to make the man spread the life's seed.

Women are genetically designed to  nurture and love. Their focus was to build a nest. To take care of the family that their mating has produced. It used to be this way, but not anymore. This female gene doesn't work that way how it used to be 50 years ago.  Today every women has same sexual freedom as men.

In US approximately 10 million open minded people  believe in sexual freedom and live in some kind of sexual freedom. So the idea to have a threesome didn't necessarily come from the male part of the couple. If she or he had some romantic secret affair outside their partnership she/he will get the idea to have a threesome around the 7th - 8th years of their relationship.

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How do I introduce my threesome idea to my mate?

You have to talk about it with your spouse. But don't be pushy. You might puss yourself out from your relationship. You have to be smart. During foreplay when your partner is turned on tell him/her your fantasies about sharing his/her body  with the hot neighbor. Probably your partner will be very surprised. Next time tell him/her again. Repeat this several times. At one point your partner should produce the own fantasy.  At this point your partners sexual activity will increase. It might never happen. Some people just don't want to do it. But if your partner will share his/her fantasy openly with you, then you can take a next step.

What is the next step to have a threesome?

You can talk openly to invite somebody into your relationship. Before you do so, both of you have to be sure,  you can handle to see each other while having sexual intercourse with a third person. Maybe your spouse is going to have more fun than you will have, or your spouse is going to enjoy more than you expected. And you wont be jealous.

Today all kinds of nasty diseases are around. You do know what is STD and how to protect yourself. It is recommended to wear a condom. 

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You understand that you will be naked, your body might touch other same gender person's body parts, or you will be touched by others. You know when two guys having an orgasm they can spray cum all over the place. Even if they wear condoms accident can happen.  Having sex is a most enjoyable exercise. When people exercise they are going to sweat. When three people have sex, they are going to produce a lot of sweat. You understand if three or four person having sex in the same bed it can be messy. If you are not sure in any of the above, don't try it.

Remember swinging is not for everyone. If your relationship is not strong enough, the threesome is going to destroy it. Strong love based relationships are going to get stronger.  

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Let's find a third person for the first threesome.

If you did not find competitive partner yet, we suggest you try to looking for a middle age (40 - 53) couple. They are still attractive and if they healthy, their sex drive still works very well. They still can go all night long.  Also if you are younger, or first timer, they can show you the ropes. Of course you don't have to choose a middle age partner if you don't want to.  You can start with a boy toy if you like. However if you start with a middle aged, more willing and pliable third partner, your first three way sex will be more enjoyable. You can play later on with boy toys...

It is not the only way to go. Many others are available. According to experienced lifestyle couples opinion, the above way is the simplest and the less manipulative way.

If you would like read others opinion how can you introduce your spouse to the lifestyle please click here.

Let's get to the action

You have found the person, that you would like to share your intimate moment with. You going to share with that person your bed, yourself and your spouse. You already met with this person or persons, you have talked with them and  have developed some kind of chemistry. You have made a decision you going to  have three way sex with them. Your little team arrived to the room well this is actually going to happen. The best thing to do, darken the room a little if it is day time, or light same candles if it is night time. Try to create subdued lighting in the room. Put some soft romantic music on and get naked. A biggest mistake you can do,  start to talk again. You have already talked enough.

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