I have been going out to the bars lately to try to socialize more and meet sexy women for casual sex. Not much success… I typically can read body language well, and I am very perceptive to someones energy, but I try to find excuses why I shouldn’t bother trying.
Do I have to be the one to initiate something every time, or is there some kind of flirtatious signal I could be sending back that might get someone to come to me?
I do far better when I am approached by a woman then when I approach a lady, because I usually get myself really nervous in the process of approaching woman. I have intentionally got myself shot down a couple of times to help overcome those issues, and it has helped with the comfort level.
But I still do far better being myself and making a good impression on someone when they come to me instead of the other way around.
Any advice someone could give me either way would be appreciated!
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Well, I guess if people are not approaching you, and you want to have sex, you will have to approach them. Women prefer being approached. Just be your friendly outgoing self, and go with the flow. People enjoy laughter.
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First off make sure you aren’t flirting with the one who everybody used. She’s the one that most everyone in the bar has enjoyed in some capacity. She is the one who every men in the bar learned how to have anal sex with…
I know that it took nearly 2 months of flirting and talking before I was able to convince a man I had my eye on that I was interested in more than the beer.
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A lot depends as well on if it is a bar, a club or a lounge. Bars traditionally are for the neighborhood locals to sit, visit, drink, shoot pool, throw darts discuss local happenings.
A club is where the music blasts, the lights pulse to the beat, you go to be seen. A lounge is normally muted undertones, low slung bar, martinis and lots of quiet dark booths. People might find sex partners to one night stand in clubs like this. That’s where you meet someone you don’t want the rest of the world to know about yet! However I think, much more easier on the Internet find competitive local sex partner for casual sex.
Also, understand that you’re not going up and asking them to marry you, you’re just saying hello. If they aren’t interested, it’s nothing personal – they’re either already spoken for, not up for chatting, or don’t think you are that kind of man that they want to have sex with.
Bar or clubs might work, the best club would be a swingers club. People go to swing clubs, because they are looking for some kind of erotic fun. Which ever one you choose go with the slow approach. If a lady is interested she will let you know, even in a swingers club.
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The majority of women prefer to be approached, even in sex clubs. Somehow, you have to come to terms with you`re nerves and approach them.
One of the easy ways is make eye contact and see how she reacts.If she makes contact eye contact back, make an approach.
What`s the worst thing she can say to you?no, so get in there before somebody else does. Faint heart never won fair maiden.
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I would advise that you get a membership on Swingerscouples.net and practice meeting people online.
Many members are here just to escape the traditional bull shit of trying to meet people in bars and other offline venues.
If I go out to bars, I do not have sex in my mind. I find sex partners on-line. I go to my local honky tonks to listen to the music, not to have sex with men who are so drunk, they puke on their boots.
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