The question of the day came from an open minded married swinger woman. She wrote it:
Why is it that we can never decide what it really is all about.
I am the female part of a early forties married couple. We are very open minded and love sex very much and we have more then a few very good sex friends. We always play as a couple. We are playing around with two different couples right now and would love to get all of us together for one big fun session.
Valentine’s Day would be a perfect day to make this erotic scenario happen, but my hubby hesitate for some unknown reasons.
If I had my way, we would celebrate Valentine’s Day with a hard core sex party, but what do you do when he just want to stay at home alone…on Valentines Day. He wants to celebrate the love’s holiday at the front of the TV, eating chocolate and pop corn. Every other men who I know would prefer eating pussies… I would understand him, If we never did anything like this before, but we did many times.
I have never had the opportunity to celebrate Valentine’s Day with hard core sex, so I was hoping this year would be different. But what do you do when your husband don’t want Valentine’s Day sex treatment. I know Valentine’s Day is like any other day, but I just find it very exiting to celebrate love with sex fest. I am getting wet just thinking about it.
I mean I have mentioned it to him more then a couple of times then finally when we were out to dinner this past weekend and he said something to me about it. Something like, I don’t care and I don’t think is a proper way to celebrate Valentine’s, but if you really want it, maybe we should call someone over, etc. I brushed it off like it didn’t matter, but really I wanted to reach over the table and ask him something like; Are you serious why do you think I have said something to you about valentine’ Day and sex, at least 6 times…
I just don’t get it. What a heck is wrong with him? He usually does not hesitate, he’s into sex at anytime, anywhere… I just don’t understand. What should I do?
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Well if I were you, I would have a party and invite that two couples. I would not tell them anything about sex party, but I would let each of them know that the others are erotic playmates. If everybody gets along then never know at where party will end. I think they will respect the fact that you would have them over without an immediate sexual motive.
If one of them do not show up, you still can have a party with the other couple. Two couples is enough to have a nice party. If your husband do not want to participate, then he can watch TV, however, I don’t think he want to left out in the cold if he see it how much fun the others have.
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