We all want to make the right impression on our first dates, the first impression very important.. After all, if things does not go well, we wont have a second date. So feeling confident in your body and your appearance is important.

However for many of you, once you have secured this first date, fear and doubt begins to set in. Especial if your date is a casual sex, or one night stand related date.

If you do not have experience in erotic dating, as soon you know, you are going to meet someone in a hope to have sex, you begin to question yourself, your appearance and why they like you. It might happen, when you arrive at your date, you will feel insecure about yourself.

To help you experience the confidence you deserve, below I have listed few tips, that might help to anyone to feel great, so anyone can approach their erotic date, in a hope they will experience success, and success in erotic dating mean sex.

1. Be relaxed. It is only natural to feel nervous on a date. It is your first real chance to get to know one another, and of course you want them to like you.

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To help control your nerves just take a few deep breaths, and try to pretend that you are with your friends. By doing so you will begin to feel calm and relaxed, and conversation will come more easily. Try to pick subjects which you can both easily talk about and have fun! Don’t talk about your X lover or your X spouse.

2. Be confident. Confidence is simply a state of mind of believing that everything is going to be okay and putting your thoughts into action. You are there, because you want to have sex and you dating partner is there for the same reason. So take a deep breath and say to yourself: This date is going to be a success; and we going to have the best sex we ever had. Repeat this in your head many times. Think positively, I can do it… all this positive thinking will eventually leak into your actions and leave you feeling confident about your date.

3. Act interested. It is easy to let our nerves get the better of us on a date. But by making sure that you keep the conversation moving; The questions flowing and avoid periods of silence. This banter will eventually begin to feel natural and you will both find yourselves feeling at ease with one another.

Remember, your dating partner is probably just as nervous as you, so act interested and the rest will naturally follow.

4. Be who you want to be.We have all felt self-conscious about our bodies at some point on our dates. From feeling overly aware of the excess lbs around our stomachs and thighs, to feeling uncomfortable in the way our clothes fit. Our lack of confidence can often translate into the way we present ourselves on our dates.

To help you slip into your favorite sexy dress with ease and feel great about your body, try to follow healthy or list healthier diet. Anyways, anyone should eat healthier… Even sex is better if your diet is healthy. Healthy Diet Related Info….. Continue Reading…..

5, Location. Choose the location very wisely. What is a good location for your first erotic date? A good location can make, or a bed location can break the deal! Lets see what our members think about, what is the best place to hook up.

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I am here to meet with other horny members. I know there are many here on the site that want to meet other members too.

I think the best way to meet is to inviting a person or persons you want to meet for a drink or dinner. This to me is a good way to meet. When someone invited me, like this, I usually accept the invite. Continue Reading…..

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My wife and I are finding that meeting for drinks or coffee is nice, but a casual meeting in one or the others home first is more relaxing, intimate, and offers privacy from others around you in public places.

We are finding that this way for our first meetings works well, because we are more relaxed and ourselves. After the first meeting if we click, more public outings are fun. Continue Reading…..

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Coffee or a drink is always good.

More than that becomes more of a commitment. Continue Reading…..

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I have to agree, I invite normally a no commitment safe drink or coffee if I’m not sure about someone and to Dinner if I am sure.

Never invite for a drink on Friday and Saturday nights though, too busy. Continue Reading…..

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I’ve usually relied on a series of emailing and phone calls, which have resulted in their showing up at my door with suitcase in hand.

On other occasions, meeting at a coffee house or local museum, park to become acquainted, and them usually going kayaking on the river by my place, andor a picnic on the grass by the boat-landing.

Cooking dinner together and then watching a good movie, a walk down by the shore in the moonlight. Long conversations about whatever, etc has been called by a few women as a welcomed escape from what called ‘the same old he buys dinner and expects to get laid for it’ routine.

I never push myself on a woman, but just let things find their own level, in their own time. Women seem more responsive to a no pressure approach that makes clear she is in charge

of events. Continue Reading…..

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Well, I don’t know…. I would usually say meet in a public place of course, but some men are real deal, you just know and you let them take you home or yo take them at the end of your first date…

However if I am not sure, meeting for a drink, then deciding to get something to eat, lots of honest conversation is a great first meet for me, then after sleeping on it both decide if a second meet would be good . Like you say, no pressure on anyone.

I’m happy to have that second date at my place and do the cooking… Continue Reading…..

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How important for a man, if his sex partner swallow his semen? Why some men like it? Continue Reading…..

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Hard to say, it is like anal sex, it might be his secret erotic fantasy and he might never experienced it. Maybe his permanent partner or spouse never done it for him and this is one of the main reason why he is here on this erotic dating website.

If this type of oral treatment something that he really want he should ask you to swallow and you can make up you mind before. Am I right? Continue Reading…..

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It ‘finishes’ the job, so to speak. As I’m cuming, her lips, tongue and hot mouth add fuel to the final stages of that fire below, to pull back only halts the otherwise incredible sensations rocketing through me, and though.
I’m all for whatever pleases her and whatever she prefers, I personally more enjoy cuming in her mouth, whether she swallows or she does not. Just for the final finish regards the sensations I’m enjoying great to the last drop, so to speak. Continue Reading…..

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It’s an opinion of what I want to do. If I want to swallow, I’ll swallow. If I don’t want to, I won’t.

It’s the same as having oral sex. If it feels good and we want to we do it, if we don’t we don’t. Everything is spontaneous. Nothing is planned. Continue Reading…..

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It doesn’t matter in the slightest if you swallow, spit, take it on the titties or ass or any other way I can think of! As far as I cum at the end…

Whatever turns you on is what I enjoy, if you make me cum! Continue Reading…..

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My cum has a strong chlorine smell so I can see why some girls don’t do it. My girl hasn’t swallowed… I came into her mouth.. I told her I will cum,  she did not stop and I let it go… She has spit it out and she said it was gross…

If I were her, I would not swallow either… Continue Reading…..

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Swallow or don’t it depends on her personal preferences and on her personal like or dislike.

Red or blue? Cherries or strawberries? Vanilla or chocolate? Picnic at a park or lunch downtown? Dior original or Levis? Levis or Wranglers? Rent a movie or IMAX experience? Coke or Pepsi? Buttered popcorn…or not? Missionary or doggy style? 3 some or more-somes or monogamous? Garters or pantyhose? Thong or granny-panty?

Vibrator with a rabbit or without a rabbit? Rough sex or gentle make out?

Those above things are all personal preference.

People, both men and women all like what they like for the personal reasons of why they like it. Often, there is no reason why other then because, they just like it or they don’t
like it.

Not everyone will like what you like. You will not like everything others like. My advice is to focus on the similarities and not the differences.

So if your sex partner think, to swallow sperm is gross, then you should not force her to swallow…  She would not enjoy it anyway and sex is great only when both partner enjoy it! Continue Reading…..

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I like the taste of cum just before and during my own orgasm.
After that, its  yucky.

In other words, its hot for the moment.

Also I never met any man, who asked me not to swallow his semen… I don’t know why they like it, but for some reason it turn them on. Continue Reading…..

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They think its nasty to swallow, so if we swallow they think we will do
anything for them…

But you are right, a healthy man’s cum who do not smoke and do no eat spicy food, tastes good.

I am more then happy to swallow… Continue Reading…..

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Why is it that most men are looking for another female to join them in  the bedroom but not willing to go that extra mile for another male? Is it not fair for their women to have that as well? Is it jealousy? Self consciousness? I would like to know.

I understand that some women are just wanting to explore that side of themselves. But in most cases it has been my experience, from talking to them, that it is mainly greed on the males side. Sometimes it is that a woman is afraid to not do that for their husbands in fear that they will leave them for not giving in to their husbands desires. To me that isn’t a relationship that will stand the test of time anyway. Just curious to know. Continue Reading…..

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There could be many many reasons: The more common one that are bantered about…. because they want the sexual acts aimed for themselves ( two women sucking on their cock idea)….

They want to see the visual, real female – female sex displayed in front of them. They do not want any male touch them in the sexual prowess area. They are jealous. It is okay for them to fuck another woman, but not okay to see their female parter get fucked by other man. They scare the other guy will be a better lover them themselves. Also the penis size is something, that every men proud of it…

They scare the extra guy will have bigger penis then they own.. I guess every couples in every relationship will have their own reasons, or might be just his own reason… Continue Reading…..

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A man I am dating keeps telling me he wants to have a threesome with me and another woman. I told him I didn’t have a problem with that because I feel secure enough in my relationship with him not to feel jealous.

The trouble is that neither of us can find another woman who wants to join us. Women usually tell me that they want a boyfriend of their own and don’t just want to join me and my boyfriend every so often. When I suggested to him that I would also like to try a threesome with another man, I got an extreme reaction.

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First of all, he pointed out that a lot of men won’t engage in sex with another man in a room or even be involved in a foursome because the thought of sucking another man’s cock made them sick. They have this fear of homosexuality, however I never mentioned, anything about male to male sex, and he already protected himself in a form to find excuse, not to have male – female – male threesome.

He also mentioned the jealousy factor as though he feared he might cum up short against another man. If men can have all these fears, I often ask myself why I am not afraid of having a threesome with a woman? I probably am more afraid of losing my lover if I don’t agree to have a threesome than if I do.

I am definitely not bisexual, but, if I had to do this every so often, I probably could do it, especially after drinking two glasses of wine – lol! I still think it’s unfair that men have this double standard about threesomes! Continue Reading…..

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I think it’s because most straight men have that fantasy where they are in a threesome with two preferably bisexual women rather than him in a situation with another dude who is hopefully not bisexual and one woman.

I don’t think it has anything to do with a guy wanting to have all the power and control and not let his partner enjoy in the fun. I knew a guy who said he’d never do mfm because if his dick ever touched the other guy’s (or the other guy’s dick ever touched him anywhere) that would be it. It would totally ruin it for him and he’d instantly go from rock hard to flaccid. Continue Reading…..

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People are into what they are into. Every woman who has a  FFM threesome has not been forced into it by a greedy male, come on! A lot of bi women are really into that, and it’s giving them a hell of a lot of satisfaction and pleasure since they are enjoying both sexes.

And not all men have to be willing to share their women with another man.

Why do people act like just because a person isn’t into what they are into that there is something wrong with that person?

You are free to do what you want sexually. For the most part, if you don’t then do something about it. Continue Reading…..

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I am the rare single woman that enjoys the right couple. Unfortunately, most couples that contact me are as exactly as you described. Hubbs is pressing for it and wife is reluctant and being pressed into it by her hubbs.

I always try to make my main communication with the wife, and if she is slow to call me, or gives off any signal she is not all for meeting with me, I politely decline as I know this is not the right couple for me.

A fun and great 3 way is a connection and flow between all three people, no matter if it’s FMF or MFM. I am contacted by many couples, almost always by the hubbs. Most stop communicating once I ask to speak with the wife. I know it’s not the right couple (for me) if the wife drags her feet on the meeting.

I would imagine it’s the same for the solo male seeking the couple. If hubbs isn’t into it…for whatever his reasons…it’s not the right couple for a 3 way! It’s hard enough (no pun intended!) to find a sexually compatible partner one on one. Add to the mix to find a third that meets both people’s criteria, and  also meets the third person’s criteria in them. The odds get catastrophically out there.

But when it all lines up and when is everything works perfectly, a threesome is an it’s incredible sexual experience! Continue Reading…..

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I can only conclude that a male – female – male threesome, in a loving relationship, is such a boost for your love-life, that I can recommend it to everyone willing to give it a try. We did it many times, and will be doing it again and again and again…! Continue Reading…..

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From my own personal experience thus far, I think belonging to SwingersCouples.net might be conducive to more frequent sex, but not necessarily to better sex.

Do you think being a free user of SwingersCouples.net helps you to find better sex than you would find by meeting someone in person, as opposed to on-line?

Because SwingersCouples.net is a sex dating website site, people have expectations that their encounters are more likely to lead to sex than if they met someone, for example, at a bar. And, this probably is true. But, is the sex better? And what about with paid members? If you have paid membership, is sex better, then with free membership?

Your thoughts?

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Couldn’t tell you because the only people I’ve had sex with in the last year are people I met here… Somehow in my suburban neck of the woods, populated by a lot of couples, I haven’t met ANYONE else to have sex with or even to have a cup of coffee with, for that matter!

Now I can tell you that some of the sex has been mind-blowing and some has really been sub-par, and most of it has been somewhere in the middle. However all of that sex was sex…. and without SwingersCouples.net, I would not have any casual sex. So I am OK with this site and it’s service. Continue Reading…..

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I don’t know about better sex. Any sex is better then no sex! When I meet up with someone from here you expect at some point sooner than normal you are going to have sex and hopefully your sexual interest are similar so that maybe the sex is better.

This site at least helps you find like minded people and one would hope the sex is better. Continue Reading…..

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I don’t think it has helped me find better sex, but it has helped me find sexual partners, as it is hard for me to get out and socialize.

I have met with several guys here, one under this profile name, and several under another when I was here a while ago. Have only had one not so great experience, and that was more a case of non communication as jack rabbit sex or jack hammer sex. It really was far to painful for me! But it was my fall, because i did not tell hi, before what I like, and how I want to get it done.

Since that I make sure, everyone is understand why I am here and what I am looking for. Continue Reading…..

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We find that this site “SwingersCouple.net“, has only helped us become open to more ideas, in what we want for our relationship!

We have found to many looser and idiots here on “SwingersCouples.net“, to make much of a difference! We agree with all of you who stated it, this site has nothing to be with better sex! It just helps to search for compatible partners, and navigate you to the right direction if you would like to learn about sex. Continue Reading…..

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If your sex partner is a great lover, then does not matter where you find him. I wrote him, because we are looking for men… So what makes a man a great lover?

A lot of guys think that a bigger penis and more staying power will make them a better lover. Some think it’s about how suave you are, and how sophisticated. Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one.

So bigger penis is definitely a BIG bonus for me, but we are looking for more then a big dick….  A big dick is not everything.

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We like smart couples. Smart people listening to their partners and that is very relaxing. Feeling more relaxed can lead to much better sex.  Also a man that pays honest attention to his female partner can make her feel like she is important and not just another pussy to him.

What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly LIKE women.  That makes a big difference.  The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends.  A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

Also a man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good.  So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way.  It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all.  It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women. And of course, a great lover knows about the female body.  He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind.  He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make.  He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs.  If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately. A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her.  He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved.

Unfortunately most men do. What really keeps most men from being great lovers – lovers that women remember with a smile for years – is that they have a goal – and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal.  They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Communicate and listen to your partner and take your time. This three  are very  important things toward to have great sex.  Continue Reading…..

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IF anyone can say, they have not embellished a little on any erotic dating web site I would say that are not telling the whole truth. Be that as it may. We all want something whether it is to explore sex or some kind of physical gratification or control all these web site promise some form of endorphins.

Yes. Think about it even if it is cyber sex or you are lucky and meet a woman or man, or a couple on this site and have sex, or some sex plays.

Now I hope I have laid the ground rules to extend my point.

I think only a small amount of selected people will ever meet the person they are seeking. Case in point me. I have been having cyber sex with this woman for the past 30 days and I wanted to take it to the next step level to meet in person.

Strange how the actual contact has managed to press so many issues to the surface. Once you want, too actually see the person you have been chatting with. Now the date has been change twenty times, the type of meeting has been changed just as many. The only conclusion is that she is not telling me the truth about something maybe she is married,
maybe she has low esteem.

Whatever the excuse is, it once again shows that getting fucked, getting laid or a blow job dominated or controlled on these types of web sites requires a lot of patience and even more tolerance to play the members game game. Read more>>>

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I’ve met several women just this summer, and three of them came to my door, suitcases in hand, and from out of state no less, before we’d ever met anywhere else. Our conversations in emails and over the phone confirmed all that was needed to be known by all, as is evidenced by their arrivals and weekend long visits.

It is all too convenient and easy to blame others for your own misadventures, and it is really a stretch to believe you’re still chasing the same person after 20 or so re-scheduling.

Has it occurred to you that spending that much time and still not succeeding points up some basic flaw in your planning?

You are simply unable to see that you’re being jerked around on a string, like a puppet, and that you openly permit this to happen.

There is absolutely no chance this is a case of you being mislead by the other, in the face of clear evidence that you have allowed yourself to be mislead by your own thinking, hopes and expectations while disregarding the obvious evidence staring you in the face…

Going down the same road over and over again, expecting it to lead you to a new destination rather than the same old one, is by definition, insanity.

The point here is that you already know what the destination is going to be. Therefore, the flaw isn’t in the road nor is it in the map you’re using. It is your refusal to read the map and find another road that will lead you to a desired destination.

In the end, you are fulfilling your own destiny, and neither patience nor tolerance are the issues here. It is your refusal to see that this is never going to happen for you.

It is a case where you cannot bring yourself to be honest with yourself, and accept that you’ve been jerked, very hard. Read more>>>

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I don’t give anyone too many chances. You say the date was changed twenty or more times? Anyone who is serious about meeting, for casual sex will do so in a timely manner. I’d be cautious of anyone in too big of a rush and equally as cautious of someone who takes their sweet time. You change or chancel your date twice, I’d move on. Read more>>>

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This is the saddest thing I have ever read. Maybe you wanted to vent your frustrations at not being either adept or lucky on this website or others for that matter. I have met many, nice single guys in my area through this site. Each one of them has met a nice, single woman, with me and with others too.

So men and women do have success on this site. I know other women who can tell you the same.

You are in a tough competition here. There are real men and losers here. Women don’t need to deal with whiny losers.

Keep your negative thoughts private and put your best foot forward. You can start by changing your profile picture. It should only have you in it. The way it is now, I can’t tell if you are the moron with his baseball cap on backwards or the semi-stylish guy with the New York brim. And lose the girls.

If you did not meet a woman, who are they anyway? Your sisters? This is not a website to post your family photos… except if you want to swap sex partners.

Or if they are you girlfriends or playmates, that is not good… Women don’t like to see other women in a potential partner’s profile picture. Read more>>>

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I think your article would be perfect for your own personal blog too. You can title it, something like: What you should do to not to find casual sex partner. Not understanding what advice exactly you’re looking for… Grew up and be a man! Read more>>>

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I don’t agree at all. I don”t want to be admired from a distance! I find it very easy to meet people here, but you have to use your head to filter the players out. You are just a naive boy! Read more>>>

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This has made me wonder for a while. Here we are on a sex dating site, and we are all trying to hook up with that person we so desire.

No matter what type of date you have when you first meet, is everything leading towards the hopeful HOT SEX at the end of the night?

Yes we all love sex and want that, but even meeting someone on SwingersCouple.net does that justify that sex needs to occur at the end of the date?

I know, I am not naive; that most are simply looking for drinks and some sexy hookup. But, I have to believe their is more
to it for a lot of people than that. Especially if you arrive on the date to find the person someone you are not attracted
to on any level.

So, does and SwingersCouple.net date mean that SEX is in the near future? Or, is it more normal? Are we normal, if we are on this site to start with?

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Actually no, not always. In my experience, when I’m trying to feel someone out, and if I aint feeling them or they aint feeling me it ends with no sex. Not on the first date and not on the second date, because, if I don’t have sex on the first date… I wont have a second date with the same man.

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Well, that’s not always the way things need to end up, unless you want just that. but I think you have to figure
out why you are going out on the date in the first place. Getting to know each other and then, or just strictly lets jump in the sack, or maybe you meet and no click, no physical spark…

Well, I think, it’s ok, to back out politely and say thanks for meeting one another.

So, far myself, I have not had one real date off this site. Of course sex is my ultimate goal. And not to say, I don’t want that on my first date… Eventually, it’s just that there is more to us then just sex… Something like HOT SEX.

It does seems, guys come here to flirting and for the web-cam, but they scare to meet.

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Interesting question. I don’t expect sex at the end of the first “date” as it is exploratory to see if there is the same attraction in person that exists on line.

If yes, then make another date to do more, erotic adult activities a few days hence. There still needs to some sort of connection, chemistry, with a live person for the sex to happen.

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Well, here is my cent worth….Yes, we are all on a sex site, and one should never forget that. From my personal experience, I do not have sex with every one I meet. Well, not ALL of them, but yes, most of them.

I like to start by talking to the person I am going to meet. First on line, then via mobile. And usually by then, I have a pretty good idea if I want to meet with him/her, or not. So, that when we meet eventually, it is just basically to make sure if i was right… before we start to screw each other brain out.

You see, for me it is easy, as I am not looking for anything long lasting on here. Yes, friendship, yes, always, and even a regular fuck buddy for sure, etc, etc.. NSA sex and nothing more.

For me, it is purely no strings attached fun, and if by chance someone turns out to be someone that I would like to go out with  regularly, then that is a bonus, and we ride the wave as long as we can.

Until it is completely spent, then hopefully depart good friends afterwards.

As for being “normal” for being on a site like this?  Well, what is normality? Is it normal for some people to have obsessive behavior? Or eat junk food only…? It depend on the person preferences. To us it may not be normal, but to them it might just be the most normal thing on earth.

The main thing is, make sure why you are on a site like this and then leave the normal  world outside once stepping inside these pages.

Always remember, you don’t have to have sex with anybody if you don’t want to. The choices are still yours. Meeting a stranger on here, that becomes a good friend can be just as fulfilling. I know, i met my soul mate on here, and we will be friends till the day we die… Read more>>>

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My last first date from this site with a great guy, ended in a kiss. But the next date is was hot and heavy in his van. Actually it took us both by surprise.I mean it was surprise we could not wait to get to the hotel room…

I think the first date is the discovery date, do they look like their picture, are we attracted to each other. If the chemistry is there, then there is every things that make it for good sex.

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I play all my cards the best I know how, but somehow I always end up stuck in the friend zone. Usually because I’m too nice. The obvious answer, stop being nice, doesn’t work for me since I cant change who I am or how I was raised.

So what am I supposed to do to fix it?

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Relax, lower expectations, face life on life’s terms, and stop whining. Taking healthy risks is part of a balanced approach to life. The world is like it is, now like we would like it.

Accept it and choose to be happy. It is your choice ya know. Maybe reading the book: “Choice Theory” by, Dr. Bill Glasser would help, or visit Lovecentria. They explain you everything about sex.

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Well look at it this way: one can never have too many friends whereas lovers tend to go and com. Just be patient surely the one for you will cross the friendship line.

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Be yourself. I too stay in the “friend” zone. I enjoy having friends and especially the two that are friends with benefits. It works for me at this point in my life.

If you are wanting more, do not change who your are just to attract women. Perhaps spending time learning about what women are truly attracted to would benefit you more. Real women really do like the “nice” guys and the gentlemen. Hugs and best wishes.

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Stop playing all your cards. Players are not so welcome. You better be yourself instead of playing.

And , “Because I am too nice” -  is the usual excuse for losers.  BTW, at the age of 18, did you ever try to meet someone, people like you, in real life ? This here might not be the best place for a greenhorn like you.

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I use to be there myself. What i did is get more aggressive / less shy. Instead of getting a hug get a kiss. Instead of holding hands put your arm around.

Make your intent clear that you want ore then friends; either physically or verbally.

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A lot of women go for bad boys, as you’ve probably noticed. I don’t think you need to change who you are. But, you need to let girls know if you want to be more than friends with them.

If they tell you they just want to be friends, accept this and move on. All you have to find are one or maybe two girls. Be patient and it will happen.

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Don’t fool yourself, if girls don’t want to get romantically involved with you it means you are doing something wrong, not because you are too nice! It’s the biggest misconception that guys think when they can’t get laid!

You are very young, you will learn, just pay attention, get as much information as you can (hopefully the good one), be patient and you will get there!

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Welcome to the beginnings of your sexual journey. At age 18, you’ve got a lifetime of fucking in front of you!

Nice guys do not finish last… They just have the patience to wait to get the choicest selection. Being in the friend zone is good practice on how to be a decent human being. At your tender young age, you’ve an eye on quantity, but as you mature, you might find it’s really all about quality.

My one piece of advice to young men your age is to learn how to PASSIONATELY eat pussy! Girls like to get theirs, too and are generally more receptive to guys who they know will make this happen, instead of it being all about the dick, the dick, the dick!

LoveCentria can teach you, can show you have you should eat correctly any pussy. I mean not pussy licking… A correct pussy eating will end up in an incredible orgasm and the good news go around very fast. That girls will explain to her girlfriend and then she want you to eat her pussy too. You will have some much pussies, you tongue will get tired of them…

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I understand exactly what you mean. For many years I was stuck in the friend zone. I starting being more assertive and a little more aggressive. For those who just wanted friends, I kinda steered away unless my mind was made up that I had to have her.

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How many cards can you have you’re only 18. Just be yourself. Don’t change for anyone. Remain true to yourself & you’ll find a girl with similar qualities who will appreciate you for who you are. Stay sweet.

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I have been in several threesomes. Half of them were what I call more traditional, with the two guys teaming up to send the woman through the roof. The others were equally fun for me, but less traditional where the woman enjoys watching her man sick another mans cock or enjoys watching her man being fucked by another man.

In one experience, she used a toy anally on me while she watched her man give me a blow job.

I am curious how many women out there enjoy watching her man with another man, and/or how many men enjoy performing with another guy for his woman’s pleasure?

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As far as I’m concerned, I am a very straight male… a real one, so man to man play is a very big no-no for me.. I’ve been in what you called the traditional set-up threesome. Works out fine for the three of us, most importantly the lady.

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Male here. So far I have only had sex with women and men separately. I would very much enjoy performing with another guy while his wife or girlfriend watches.

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Although I like gay and bi sexual man to man porn (I love hearing men moan and straight porn doesn’t have much of that), I would NOT like seeing my guy with another guy.

I’m seeking straight guys only and in my opinion, a MFM 3some, would be for her pleasure (in this case for my pleasure) and in your case for the lady pleasure. Your threesome was a FFM threesome.

Also there is a FMF 3some is for his pleasure (if both are straight), and FFM for both pleasure( woman plays with woman and the man can join in).

For the record, I wouldn’t want to see my guy with another woman either. Call me selfish….

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I have absolutely no interest in seeing my man performing sexual acts with another man… One of the fantasies I’d like to fulfill is a MFM threesome and I would hope that they are comfortable enough to be close to each other, but I want them both doing me!!!

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I am a man and I haven’t played with a man in a threesome. No yet, but I find the idea arousing. I also happen to know, from conversations with former female partners, that this scenario is a huge turn on for some women.

Ironically I had a conversation with another guy about just this scenario earlier this afternoon. Tell me it ain’t a small world!

It will be interesting to see what some women have to say about it.

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Not really my cup of tea, but to each his own. Whatever floats your boat my friend.

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Not interested in male to male action.Very interested in MFM action with two particular men which are totally uncooperative
with me!

Possibly even three men  on one woman, me being the one woman! Why they are being so uncooperative I can’t imagine? It’s
not like it’s unfamiliar territory for any of them.

I am not ugly, maybe they don’t like my “attitude”. They don’t need to have sex with my attitude… They should fuck my body… I think they know this,  just they aren’t used to a woman that is so eager!

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Mmmmm, my latest fantasy that has yet to be fulfilled. I would love to find 2 bi masculine men.

That’s my favorite type of porn and my wildest fantasy.  Male to male and me… If everyone enjoys it, the more the merrier.

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Love to feel another mans cock in my golden hole while I mm eating a pussy.

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Personally, I would get nothing out of watching my man with another man. Even if I did, I wouldn’t be able to convince him to. Hi is straiter then the shortest distance, between two points.

I’ve always wanted to try a MFM, but with me the center of attention. Even that is hard to convince some guys to do though. They just chicken out, from an one other naked guy. What’s wrong with these men this days?

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And I feel like most of them I am lying about it. So, I am curious, when you meet someone who claims they want NSA, do you believe them? Or do you think they are just saying what they think you want to hear?

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I believe that its really hard to have a NSA relationship. There’s this guy I know. We’ve been spending lot of time together in and out of bed. We both agreed that we want a fling.

No commitment kinda thing since we are both in college and after the college we wont even live in the same country. But since we spend so much time together, I haven’t fallen in love, but I realized that I care for him quite a bit.

It is scary because I don’t wanna fall I love knowing the fact that I am gonna get hurt, and or I don’t want to hurt him.

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If I meet someone for sex only I’m not looking for a relationship. If the sex is good for both of us we may decide to meet again.

Some men may have an ego problem and think that when you have sex with them then you will not want anyone else.

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I had an experience where I posted to find a couple and got a few responses. One specifically said she couldn’t meet now but since I was in her neighborhood she wanted know if I might be interested in some future time. We traded pictures and letter had a phone conversation before meeting.

I also always have some kind of initial meeting in public before committing to a private environment for sex. Every first meeting needs the bailout option in my eyes.

But she and I later hooked-up a few times after that on the whim of a late night phone call and the question, “You busy?”

Being on-line is great for meeting, because millions of people look and offer something erotic. However I’ve also found that the random NSA hook-up can occur at a bar, club, party where alcohol is involved and most people have had an opportunity to assess their intended playmate in person.

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You have asked an excellent question. We are all imperfect beings and as such we are often not aware of our deepest needs and motivations.

No Strings Attached sex is a novel yet peculiar choice for many people. We are almost taught from birth via religion, art, movies and society that to isolate pleasure from bonding and or love is almost anathema to existence. There is also the proven generation of oxytocin through human touch and the need to bond to give more meaning to life.

When we are honest enough to admit that we wish NSA sexual contact, the very fact of honesty can engender deeper feelings of quasi love in another who is looking for acceptance of NSA sex.

I had trouble and sometimes still do until I examined myself, through talks with friends around this subject.

Sometimes I wish caring, loving, tender NSA sex with an openness to see the other person again while still continuing NSA sex.

So to answer your question:

Yes I do not necessarily believe a proffered NSA relationship. I do prefer a little more discussion to find out how much of and what type of NSA they are talking about.

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Honestly, if I continue to see someone on a repeated basis, I don.’ really understand the whole NSA situation. Cuz no matter what I will eventually develop something for the sex partner. No matter what, I would want that person to see me more than just a sex toy that they can have fun with from time to time.

Sometimes I think its easier for men to claim they want NSA fun. When men advertise that they are looking for NSA, I stay away from those guys. I am unable to see someone on a repeated basis with such lack of attachment like that…

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Most men don’t want to talk about any relationship. Most women are much better at talking about relationships.

I think in general, Yes, men are intimidated by women who want to talk about relationships. Perhaps there are people who would like a friendly “attachable” relationship if there is chemistry and good communication, but are afraid to bring it up because they don’t want to ruin what little bit of good that might happen.

You might see pain and frustration in their eyes over failed relationships of the past. You know, once burnt, twice shy.

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