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Interracial threesome

By jani on 21 March 2010 under Sex Related Info

My wife has had several Interracial relationships in our married life, and even more one night lovers. Here recently we have found that the ones being selected for our encounters are being extremely disrespectful and demeaning about the whole situation.

Prior to the encounter, there is no evidence that the personality is going to switch in the middle of our arrangement. Then all of the sudden, without warning, the verbal insults begin. Mostly directed towards me,
but often aimed at her as well…

How do we go about being more selective than we already are?

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When your old lady leaves you for an other man, you’ll know why won’t you? Sometimes you get what you wish for. Why ain’t you two play as a couple?

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My real advice is to be more thorough with your email vetting process. If you exchange a few more emails than you have been, the nut cases will usually reveal themselves. They get deranged by having to keep up a respectful conversational patter for longer than their attention span.

My other advice makes an assumption. I assume you are meeting with these guys in a hotel or motel room. When they get disrespectful, bash them over the head with a convenient chair. Before they come to, throw their clothes outside your door.

While they are still groggy, toss the guy out of the room, lock the door behind you and call hotel security.

After a while, the word will get out that you guys don’t like disrespectful men.

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Engage these guys with conversation first. See if they are polite and considerate. We’ve been with two different race males and they were both very respectful and extremely polite.

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Alright, first off let me respond to JKH’s question.

“Why ain’t you two on here as a couple?”

I guess I did not make it Cristal clean. We do play as a couple and that dis-respectful experience happened with us, as as a couple.

We currently have three accounts on Swingerscouple.net. She has her account, I have my account, and we have a joint account. See, we decided long ago that we were not going to control the others lifestyle, therefore, we play together and we play alone.

I hope that answered your question. Second, just because we, wife and I enjoy the company of others doesn’t mean that our relationship is in any jeopardy. Matter of fact, it is just the opposite.

So before you continue attempting to foretell the future, realize you aren’t Nostradamus.

Lastly, I have to try others advise. Go a little slower and spend a little more time to select a right guys for our next threesome… It just would be a minor set back that could prove to be a tremendous help…

Just to talk about this already hot, like a violent woman in a three or more some!

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You should tell those guys, the first sign on not enough respect will end up to cal,l the hotel security as someone already suggested above. Also you should tell them, this is your show and your threesome, take the rules or leave it. if they don like it, they are free to leave at anytime. You might need to point out that one of your rule’s name is respect. Respect is a must in any sexual relationship!

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No strings attached sex

By jani on 15 March 2010 under Sex Related Info

We have been (my wife and I) member of few internet dating websites over the years, with some success. So far this site is the best, but we would like to find more competitive sex partners, couples, bi women or selected str8 single men.

Sure there are many profiles from my city and from the surrounding area and still not easy to get together for no string attached sex. What do we wrong?

So we go through the process of writing our biography in an attempt to attract open minded members to the point that we can actually meet and try to start a relationship. Herein lies the first question;

How honest are we when we write our profiles? Do we write what we really think about ourselves?

Or do we write what we think will generate the most interest and hopefully result in a flood of emails to our in-box?

Once we have fought the temptation to write the Brad Pitt or Angelina Jollie profile, we will usually settle on a collection of half truths that gives us a little ego boost because we have left out all the unattractive bits that may make lest attractive to our potential suitors.

Herein lies the second question;

Do anyone of us actually know what we really want? We are all faced with to condition of the modern society, one where being unique or special no longer guarantees us being noticed.

Herein lies the third question;

How far are prepared to go to generate some interest from another open minded – preferable – horny human being? To actually make contact (read this being able to hold a one on one conversation other than an online one) we need to subscribe to a service just to send messages directly to someone that might take an interest and answer our little wink, kiss or other silly little graphic thing.

So we are up the challenge, we payed to have unlimited access to the thousands of potential matches made in sex heaven so we can actually write directly to anyone, who is the object of our erotic fantasy.

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Every now and then reality kicks in and we get a lot of message, but things die before personal meeting, before we can build a relationship.

If I didn’t have the basic human desire to want to meet someone I can share our life with, would I really believe that there is someone out there for me? Probably not.

I look forward to other members comments and views on this conundrum of love.

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You wrote that, “We have been, my wife and I, members of few Internet dating websites”, and you are talking like a single man. This is not a dating site. No wonder you have had no luck finding the one. You talk like an advertisement for match making website like eHarmony. You use a words like “our biography, potential suitors, build relationship, share our life”

People on this site don’t build relationship. They build sex relationships, they don’t share their life, they share their sex life or they share their wife.

Fix your profile, let members know, you want to share your sex life, you want to share your wife with other men, and things will start to roll.

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No one in here is really serious about hooking up for sharing their life. It is not eHarmony or Facebook with naked pictures.

What I’ve seen are men and women to talk and they might walk together to a motel or hotel room for a weekend.

When I’m actually looking for sex I know it is here. I don’t need to go to the club around the corner to find one night stand. I can find it here. I enjoy this site for find fuck body and I enjoy this site to socializing about sex and sex life.

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It is a sex site, it is a dating website. It is both in one, so I can say it is a sex and – or an erotic dating website.

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Meet sexy women for casual sex

By jani on 08 March 2010 under Sex Related Info

I have been going out to the bars lately to try to socialize more and meet sexy women for casual sex. Not much success… I typically can read body language well, and I am very perceptive to someones energy, but I try to find excuses why I shouldn’t bother trying.

Do I have to be the one to initiate something every time, or is there some kind of flirtatious signal I could be sending back that might get someone to come to me?

I do far better when I am approached by a woman then when I approach a lady, because I usually get myself really nervous in the process of approaching woman. I have intentionally got myself shot down a couple of times to help overcome those issues, and it has helped with the comfort level.

But I still do far better being myself and making a good impression on someone when they come to me instead of the other way around.

Any advice someone could give me either way would be appreciated!

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Well, I guess if people are not approaching you, and you want to have sex, you will have to approach them. Women prefer being approached. Just be your friendly outgoing self, and go with the flow. People enjoy laughter.

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First off make sure you aren’t flirting with the one who everybody used. She’s the one that most everyone in the bar has enjoyed in some capacity. She is the one who every men in the bar learned how to have anal sex with…

I know that it took nearly 2 months of flirting and talking before I was able to convince a man I had my eye on that I was interested in more than the beer.

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A lot depends as well on if it is a bar, a club or a lounge. Bars traditionally are for the neighborhood locals to sit, visit, drink, shoot pool, throw darts discuss local happenings.

A club is where the music blasts, the lights pulse to the beat, you go to be seen. A lounge is normally muted undertones, low slung bar, martinis and lots of quiet dark booths. People might find sex partners to one night stand in clubs like this. That’s where you meet someone you don’t want the rest of the world to know about yet! However I think, much more easier on the Internet find competitive local sex partner for casual sex.

Also, understand that you’re not going up and asking them to marry you, you’re just saying hello. If they aren’t interested, it’s nothing personal – they’re either already spoken for, not up for chatting, or don’t think you are that kind of man that they want to have sex with.

Bar or clubs might work, the best club would be a swingers club. People go to swing clubs, because they are looking for some kind of erotic fun. Which ever one you choose go with the slow approach. If a lady is interested she will let you know, even in a swingers club.

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The majority of women prefer to be approached, even in sex clubs. Somehow, you have to come to terms with you`re nerves and approach them.

One of the easy ways is make eye contact and see how she reacts.If she makes contact eye contact back, make an approach.

What`s the worst thing she can say to you?no, so get in there before somebody else does. Faint heart never won fair maiden.

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I would advise that you get a membership on Swingerscouples.net and practice meeting people online.

Many members are here just to escape the traditional bull shit of trying to meet people in bars and other offline venues.

If I go out to bars, I do not have sex in my mind. I find sex partners on-line. I go to my local honky tonks to listen to the music, not to have sex with men who are so drunk, they puke on their boots.

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Meet people for sex

By jani on 03 March 2010 under Sex Related Info

Are you looking for no commitment sex relationship

I’m tiring of the chase. I am about to give up. You don’t want a guy with no hair. Your two years too old. You are not old enough. You are not H/W proportionate (that’s true). You have facial hair, no facial hair, no mustache, but wear a goatee.

For some this is an erotic dating sight. Maybe your prospects would be better served if you went to a Dating – Match making site, but just maybe and it depends on what do you looking for.

Really, why are you here? Are you looking for no commitment sex relationship, or just a one night stand, or casual sex?

I understand the Adult part of Swingers Couple.net is that this site helps people who want a sexual relationship (together with DatingSensations. com) to find the same with a gendered member they find attractive, or more than one. And then, we have to go out to eat. Its not a damn date for me. But once again what do you looking for? Date or sex? Maybe sex date… ?

If sex is in you r mind, I have to let you know, I have met women here, with whom I’ve had sex on the first encounter . Yes you red it right, I met women from this site and I had sex on our first date. Actually there was two women and one couple.

Those sex relationships lasted for a long time and we still chat and keep up on the news even today. But that was way to much work. Typing, trying to be interesting, clever plays on people’s user-names or their profiles. The first was the hardest, the other two was easier.

I want tang on my tongue, not a shopping list of compliance criteria. And that is my rant for the day. I had enough from sit at the front of the computer and check out shaved pussies and hard dick’s photos. I think I love to do things on the traditional way. Meet in person and go from there.

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So, if I understand your rant…you don’t want to date, you do not want to go out with anyone, you just want to have sex and you are upset, frustrated that that’s not happening. Am I right?

Well, buddy, in my frank opinion…you are out of luck! Most women meed (myself included) to feel something for a man before she gives him a blow-job or gets eaten out or fucks him with any enthusiasm.

Women like to feel like more than just a warm hole and the date part you hate is what helps her get in the mood. The date part says you actually like her and want to be with her as a person.

Of course, on Dating Sensations, you could just look for women that say they just want to get screwed… But you have to browse those erotic profiles. Or if you don’t like that, why don’t you call an escort service. You do not have to go out to eat with those professional girls. The choice is yours!

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Sorry Pal, I have standards and that’s not going to change. If you don’t fit the bill, I’ll move on to find someone who does. Might I suggest that you do the same. This is a site to help you find like minded people not whores.

Thanks so much for the referral to the traditional dating sites but my prospects are served just fine right here!

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WOW Are you ever taking a lot of shit from the females on this site! Being one I guess I also fall into that category – don’t want facial hair blah, blah, blah.

Why all the criteria?

I guess I figure if we are on here to meet people for sex or otherwise – we aren’t going to waste time with the ones we just don’t want to meet.

Ive been on this site going on 2 years and with time you develop a no thanks list – this comes from meeting a few “OMG” types. Seriously its like do you want to meet a girl who is nothing like what you kind attractive and so on – probably not I would guess.

So us ladies are just narrowing it down shall we say and weeding out the NO thanks deals.

For sure the ladies on this site far outnumber the men. I do feel sorry for the men on this site! I am here because I like this site, I managed to meet with more then few nice guys and nice couples…. I guess I’m lucky.

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Make your sex dream reality

By jani on 01 March 2010 under Sex Related Info

I am dreaming about casual sex. Is it possible to not just to dream about a sexual experience that hasn’t become reality? That a dream can have so much energy that it comes true? I mean can we make our erotic casual sex related dream – real sex?

Or can it be something that you have in yourself that is a gift or a curse?

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I think they call that fantasizing about sex and sex act with others. Be careful what you wish for and what you do, because here you just might get it. I mean if if the sex dream is that vivid and a person just keeps fantasizing about it, it might stay dream forever. But I think it just comes down to the person effort and enthusiasm, that make it become a reality. There is no pure luck in casual sex relationship.

You can not build and abased any relationship on luck only. You have to have input as action. You have to do something…

Of course it is possible to dream about sexual experiences that haven’t ever happened… That’s why they are called dreams. I would think if your subconscious wants it bad enough, it may just become a reality.

Gift or a curse…neither. There are no real gift in casual sex. You have to do something to make your erotic dream reality.

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Erotic casual sex related dream is something that anyone who has an imagination and the guts to actually carry out their dreams.

Casual, no commitment sex isn’t for everyone because it can take a lot of courage to step that one step over the edge, but as one who actually does the walk. Many women, men and couples, who are into casual sex, states it, it is well worth it.

You have to have an adventurous spirit though and you should be able to take carefully considered risks. That isn’t in everyone’s comfort level. Some friends of mine and I have discussed this issue several times. In my opinion, (and I am not a sexologist or anything like that), is that men will more typically act out a dream or a fantasy whereas a women quite often won’t.

The social history buff of my personality says: What do you expect here in North America?

A world wide view of the same thing does make little difference. Of course this is only my opinion, and I can be wrong.

I do not recommend for people to go off and just act out wild without taking simple precautions. You and everyone else should use their head and should think before get into the bed with one stranger. Sex is good sex is nice, sex is fun, but there are certain things, and certain lines that should not be crossed.

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Of course they do! Part of casual sex it is wanting it, and wanting it hard enough. The other part of it is going for it. Remember, if you don’t try and don’t ask, the answer is always no!

Too many people live their lives on the sidelines wishing to get into any sex play, any sex game. They are afraid that if they get in the game, they could get injured. So they stay on the sidelines.

But if you go in, you have a chance to score. And even if you get injured, you will still have a great story to tell. It could be a great life time experience.

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Casaul Sex on vacation

By jani on 22 February 2010 under Sex Related Info

One of our partners lady member asked it:

I like to travel and get out of town any chance I can get. As sexual as I am, I never hook up with any men while on vacation. Perhaps it is a lack of trust in a new environment. Perhaps I just get so caught up in the culture that my sexuality isn’t a high concern.

Thought I prefer friends with benefits at home, I’m surprised I don’t throw caution to the wind when I’m
on vacation. When I travel with a friend, I tend not to stray from them or hit on men. When traveling alone, I’m cautious about my safety.

I recently traveled to another country and was hit on constantly. They were very flirty and I received a lot of phone numbers. Wish the men were as forward here! I didn’t take them up on it for the reasons I mentioned above.

When on vacation, do you ever hookup with someone you meet or are you more like me and abstain from sex on a vacation?

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You’re probably just more comfortable on your home turf so more willing to engage in hook-up type sex. Nothing wrong with that and just enjoy the vacation for the chance to get away and have regular kinds of fun.

I used to travel a lot for my job and made frequent use of the opportunities presented by the hotel bar. Business women traveling don’t mind company, either and I met some very nice ladies that way. Some of them turned into FWBs that lasted for a long time, whenever we crossed paths.

Once, on an extended trip in Toronto, I was eating breakfast in the hotel dining room and a very pretty English lady asked me if she could share my table since every table was taken. I said “Sure” and she sat down. We chatted, enjoyed each others company and made a date for that evening after we both finished our business.

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That date ended up with her moving into my room for the next week. She went back to England and we haven’t seen each other since, but still exchange e-mails from time to time.

I think the key for a woman traveling is that if you’re going to look for a companion on vacation, be as picky and careful as you would be anywhere else. And in no way let him get anywhere near your happy parts without protection.

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One of our oldest fuck buddy has a place on the gulf coast. I will go down to visit him by myself and be his for a week, usually. He once set me up to fuck a friend of his, so I didn’t have to worry about picking anyone up. Anticipating that trip was one of the most exciting times for me. It still gets me wet. I haven’t been on a solo vacation in years.

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Vacation sex is great…no strings attached! It can be exciting. But, don’t forget…no glove, no condom, no sex. It is simple safe sex or no sex. Then I will make love only with my hubby…

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Skill & seduction – in sexual relationships

By jani on 18 February 2010 under Sex Related Info

Form our dating partner’s erotic dating advice line.

A woman’s power over a man is not only whats between her legs but in her attitude and desire to entice a man. We call it the art of Seduction.

Being beautiful and sexy woman is a definite plus for any man to be enticed alone, but I came to a conclusion. I believe sex is good, because a woman’s confidence and attitude.

A while back a gentleman friend once told me, “Darling if I saw you in a room with 20 other females who were sexy, you wouldn’t of been the one I would of chose based on physical appearance. He proceeded to say, “I’m
a physical type individual I like my sexy women.”

I was shocked and a little thrown off but kept my composer, after all he was the one who pursued me! He looked at me and noticed I was in disbelief! He quickly said, “But up until this day you have changed my outlook on all of that!”

I began to laugh, I thought it was funny how he was trying so hard to bounce back from the comment he just said. I told him, “Oh really? And what was your outlook?” He smiled and told me that I let out such exotic energy that I was so easy to be comfortable around. I say and do things that no skinny chick has ever did for him, he continued to comment how my eyes and lips made even the sexiest woman
look so cold. I began to laugh and tell him “well I’m just me.”

So I want to know what do you think, skill, look or attitude gets a man attention?

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There are many answers and responds for the above question. You can read them all at next. However I posted two of my favorite at next.

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A male member wrote it:

The ability for a woman to seduce a man across a room comes mostly from the sexuality that resides deep in her. This sexuality, if mastered and perfected by her, will exude into her exterior and what emanates from her and is sensed by men who come into contact with her.

She may not have the sexiest body, but her sexuality may make her the sexiest woman in the room.

Some women have less sexuality within them but have a better mastery of it, hence can still seduce most men. A woman, who has a high degree of sexuality and a very sexual physical beauty are dangerous. If a horny man run into a women like this, he might do a lot of stupid things just to impress her.

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The next respond is posted by a lady member.

Sexually, attitude and desire

Let me begin by saying that I don’t believe women have “power” over men anymore than I think men have
“power” over women. Saying we have power sounds to me like being on an ego trip. What glues people together sexually, in my opinion, are attitude and desire to please.

If you look at my picture and consider my age, you’ll realize I am far from being a beauty queen. Like you, I had a number of men tell me that it wasn’t my pretty face which turned them on (no surprise there), but that it was my open attitude and my desire to please them and to enjoy being pleased which made them cum back for more.

At first, I, too, was a bit taken aback by their candor, but later, after thinking about this and realizing I am no longer a spring chicken, as it were, it all made sense to me. Considering that I have more male admirers than a number of women who are far more attractive than I am, I came to the conclusion that attitude is everything. Attitude means the ability to explore and to accept a man along with his fetishes, as long as they aren’t too far out.

For instance, I won’t tolerate anything involving pain or bestiality, but most other fetishes and practices – if they please both partners – are fine with me.

Then again, I could also argue that seduction skill plays an important role in sexual relationships, too. Some women are so passive that they confuse a man into thinking maybe they are just not interested. If a woman plays an active role and initiates sex and wears sexy outfits in order to seduce a man, she is also on the right track.

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Naughty Hotties Want to Meet YOU!

By jani on 16 February 2010 under Sex Related Info

Cooped up indoors with a raging case of cabin fever? Why not get in a little extracurricular activity…straight from your bed! Film your own naughty home video and post it to your profile on DatingSensations.com!

Read on for more tips on connecting with other hot singles and couples on DatingSensations.com (together with Swingerscouple.net), and heat up those cold winter nights!

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Technology can be a beautiful thing – especially when it comes to hooking up with someone to have casual sex with! Instead of basing your impression of a potential play date on just a single, fuzzy photo, SwingersCouples.net gives you the complete audio-visual experience! Do I have to essay that, it is a very erotic experience? Do not believe me? Check out the members’ erotic photo albums and erotic video dating profiles at next>>>

For something a little more intimate than just written words, you can record a voice introduction describing yourself and your ideal match – and what you’d like to do to her! And if you’re a Silver member, you can take it a step further and send a personalized voice introduction directly to any lucky lady who’s caught your eye.

Say you’ve been bewitched by a buff beauty like the hottie at next, who describes herself as a “fit, attractive, fun, confident, insatiable woman.” Catch her attention with a voice message!

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Just click on Send Voice Message on her profile, and hit record; she’ll get an email with the personalized message from you, which she can play to her heart’s content – talk about making an impression!

In addition to this great perk, Silver members can:

• Access complete profiles.
• Watch video introductions, which truly speak for themselves!
• Initiate email – so you don’t have to sit around waiting for the hotties to respond to your flirts!

Register today, look around, the registration is free with basic membership, and if you like what you see, upgrade your free membership, enjoy enhanced membership privileges – and start hooking up with hotties from your city!

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If you create a nice profile, your inbox will burst with praise…but might be from the wrong type of match. We all love flattery, but when you’re trying to hook up with a specific type, use the special Email Filters to sort out the ones you desire!

Just cruise over to your Message Center, click the Filter Settings link, and mark the check boxes that fit your requirements. Ta-da! All email from folks who don’t match your preferences will be sent straight to your “Filtered” email box, leaving room for the good stuff!

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Many knowledgeable members have taken the time to post helpful reviews of businesses and locations – plus you can write a review yourself! Best of all, you can use the cool Local Meetups section to plan sexy encounters locally once you’ve returned home. So open up your erotic destinations with SwingersCouples.net Get Local offerings!

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Cross taboo sex lines

By jani on 08 February 2010 under Sex Related Info

The question of the day from DatingSenations.com on-line erotic dating advice line. Please read at next.

I have made a few good women friends here. We talk open and honestly about a lot of things. Some have told me about their experiences here. Some good and some bad. These women are all decent, fun loving, love sex and have come here for various reasons under various circumstances.

So, my questions are as follows:

Do you think it is a coincidence that there are not much more women on this site then men? Do you find that sometimes you are treated like a whore (although it doesn’t start out that way)?

Have you ever looked at some of the other profiles women post (videos.. and what not)? You really should take a look at the women videos. Do you really think you are going to find a relationship here?

Just for my two cents… I don’t think anyone come to this site because they are looking for relationship. People coming here to find casual sex and sex partner. Maybe who ever is posted that question wanted to write sex relationship. And in that case, the answer would be yes, many people, men, women and couple found here casual sex partners, one night stand, and sex relationship.

The second part of the question:

Have you ever looked at the web cam advertising at the end of each page?

Particularly the one where the woman is sticking the dildo up her ass. What do you think about the way this site advertises?

Are you even aware of what they say on all the porn sites and the guarantee the site makes to men “to get laid with in three months? Even if you are here for sex, do the claims this site makes kind of make you feel like you are being pimped out?

No, I am absolutely do not feel pimped out. Why would I? I do not pay for sex, and I do not care about advertising.

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Do you think there is a reason why many men are presumptuous when the say … “hey, I got a big fat cock, lets fuck”!

Two of my favorite responds are at next. Both of them was posted by women.

I’ve gotten as good as I’ve given here at DatingSensations. Sure, there are the bores or the “turkeys” but they don’t take long to ID and then ignore.

I’ve found some life-changing friends here and had some heartache. Such is life. The erotic ads and other women’s profiles / erotic videos don’t influence me at all as I don’t look at them except to confirm who I’m talking to or before I respond to an AL comment/question.

I’ve found most folks are multi-dimensional, as am I. If I want to approach them as single dimension then I get what I asked for. That’s my fault.

For real men, there can be great opportunities here as well as there are for real women. Anyone can find here a lot of fun and anyone can meet with a lot of nice men, women and couple. I haven’t found a male model yet but then I don’t respond to ads/profiles that look too good to be true.

There are more and more male bots here every day and they prey on women just as the female bots do on men. This is not a place for the vulnerable or the naive to play.

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All I want is a Valentine’s Day sex party

By jani on 03 February 2010 under Sex Related Info

The question of the day came from an open minded married swinger woman. She wrote it:

Why is it that we can never decide what it really is all about.

I am the female part of a early forties married couple. We are very open minded and love sex very much and we have more then a few very good sex friends. We always play as a couple. We are playing around with two different couples right now and would love to get all of us together for one big fun session.

Valentine’s Day would be a perfect day to make this erotic scenario happen, but my hubby hesitate for some unknown reasons.

If I had my way, we would celebrate Valentine’s Day with a hard core sex party, but what do you do when he just want to stay at home alone…on Valentines Day. He wants to celebrate the love’s holiday at the front of the TV, eating chocolate and pop corn. Every other men who I know would prefer eating pussies… I would understand him, If we never did anything like this before, but we did many times.

I have never had the opportunity to celebrate Valentine’s Day with hard core sex, so I was hoping this year would be different. But what do you do when your husband don’t want Valentine’s Day sex treatment. I know Valentine’s Day is like any other day, but I just find it very exiting to celebrate love with sex fest. I am getting wet just thinking about it.

I mean I have mentioned it to him more then a couple of times then finally when we were out to dinner this past weekend and he said something to me about it. Something like, I don’t care and I don’t think is a proper way to celebrate Valentine’s, but if you really want it, maybe we should call someone over, etc. I brushed it off like it didn’t matter, but really I wanted to reach over the table and ask him something like; Are you serious why do you think I have said something to you about valentine’ Day and sex, at least 6 times…

I just don’t get it. What a heck is wrong with him? He usually does not hesitate, he’s into sex at anytime, anywhere… I just don’t understand. What should I do?

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Well if I were you, I would have a party and invite that two couples. I would not tell them anything about sex party, but I would let each of them know that the others are erotic playmates. If everybody gets along then never know at where party will end. I think they will respect the fact that you would have them over without an immediate sexual motive.

If one of them do not show up, you still can have a party with the other couple. Two couples is enough to have a nice party. If your husband do not want to participate, then he can watch TV, however, I don’t think he want to left out in the cold if he see it how much fun the others have.

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