Halloween just few days a way and as usually this time of the years as this year too, the Halloween sex party season already booming. There are a lot of talk about Halloween and sex parties and swinging. Also a lot of talk about male bi sexuality.
Many couples have contacted me since joining SwingersCouple inquiring about bi-male play during sex. Many of these couples were curious and looking to explore further while others may have just wanted my opinion.
I thought I would take just a few minutes to let any readers know my personal opinion on male bisexuality so they could get this female’s point of view.
First of all I must start by saying that I am a bisexual woman. Just as many men are turned on by the thought of two women being together, some women find two men being
together attractive. I am definitely one of those women who finds bisexual men extremely attractive!
My husband is the first bisexual man that I had ever dated and of course he approached the subject of his bisexual feelings right up front. I was surprised to say the least but he explained things to me in such a way that left me curiously excited about the issue.
The rest is history. We dated, got married, and continue to explore many aspects of sex that make us happy that I may have never experienced being with someone else. Continue Reading…
- 1. They can understand my own attractions to men.
- 2. Bisexual men like my husband are very aware of their sexual desires. I have found that many are much more understanding of my own sexual desires and are much more willing to explore them than men I dated in the past.
- 3. They can understand my own bisexuality (woman/woman) on a higher level than
just being turned on by it like some straight men.
- 4. We can share many new experiences sexually that I never thought possible with a straight man.
- 5. Many bisexual men are not afraid to admit to themselves that they do not fit the common narrative about how sexuality works.
- 6. It is very fulfilling to me to know that bi men have taken the time and emotional energy necessary to explore their own sexuality and then come to terms with it and own it!
- 7. After meeting other bisexual men other than my husband, I have found many of them (not all) to be more attentive to my sexual needs and desires and fun to be with in the bedroom in general. I don’t necessarily think this is because they are bisexual but more likely because they are more comfortable with their sexuality.
- 8. Watching two good looking men touch each other sexually, give each other hand-jobs, blowjobs, etc. is just very exciting to watch for me, just as it may be exciting for men to watch two women.
Those are just a few thoughts off the top of my head about the subject. Put simply- The truth of the matter and my current situation is that we both go out of our way to partake in open-minded communities of people where I know our sexuality will not be a problem.
Now, I have also been approached with some cautionary tales and concerns by other couples and women about dating bi men. I’ve found many of these concerns actually pertain to a straight men just as much as bisexual men. Continue Reading…
For example. The question “Can a bisexual man be faithful if he is bi?” Answer- Of course he can! Any man can be unfaithful, straight or bi. The bisexual men I have met who are not hiding it seem to have great relationships, many are better than some of the straight couples we have met over the years.
Why? My answer is this…. If I bi man finds a woman who is understanding of his sexuality, in his view he has found gold at the end of the rainbow! Why would they want to leave If you have concerns about faithfulness of your partner then you should discuss it with them whether you are straight or bi..
With sexuality there is no “one size fits all” approach. We all have our turn-ons and turn-offs. Do what makes you happy in life with the person who supports you doing it!
Bisexuality has made our sex life much more interesting and sexy in my opinion but it is not for everyone. We are one of those couples who can appreciate other couples desires whether they be straight, gay, or bisexual. Continue Reading…
You are an awesome wife!!!! Your husband is a very lucky man! Continue Reading…
Sex is suppose to be fun!!! We agree! Continue Reading…
I like to have a good orgasm just like anyone, wouldn’t bother me so much if it was coming from a man but I’m not sure I could do it to him. Continue Reading…