Here’s the deal. We had a long term sex friend a friend with erotic benefits, we can call him fuck buddy. A man that we didn’t meet on erotic dating website. He was a friend, a “vanilla friend” so to speak that turned into a sexual friend for us (100% straight btw).
We found Swingers Couple’s website and though “no problem, we can find another sex friend on here for something long term”.
We were very wrong! Now we have had no problem meeting men for a one time sex play thing, but everyone says “oh yeah I want something long term” but after one or a couple of times they just fizzle out and disappear.
Have any other couples ran into this situation? We know some of these “single” men weren’t
really single after some time, but she is hot and sexy. It seems we have better luck finding people in bars or people that are existing friends.
Any suggestions for weeding out the fakes that are just looking for a quick piece of ass? Continue reading…
According to our experience… Someone really interested in an ongoing erotic play will be willing to put a little time in to get to know you.
Don’t hit the sheets right away, and let them know up front that you won’t play on the first date.
There are serious people out there… take your time end select them on the “smart” way… Continue reading…
When my wife is looking to add men we found that couples where always our best place to find friends that last long times and are good too go with out troubles.
Most wife we know will let their men swing with their close friends with out needing to join all the time.
I as well get to go out on my own, most of the time I play with couples. When we are all in the same place we’ll meet for fun… and it can be a lot of fun. Continue reading…
For a couples, hard to find a single fuck buddy… Why would single guys settle for a borrowed penis or vagina when they can have one of their own? Continue reading…
We currently have two long term fwb and we did not have any difficulties to find them. Also we are partying once a month with new partners.
I can’t understand why you have problem to find a willing long turn man… Maybe there is something, that you do not tell us… Continue reading…
Patience and a lot of searching and you just may find the couple looking for another regular couple to play with.
It took me years to find the right man for me. Yes I had to weed out a lot of duds, assholes, players…. all talk no action, but carefully screening works.
Patience and searching and you may find what you are looking for. Continue reading…
I understand what you mean. BTW I am part of a couple and we have a couple gold membership, but we also have our own single standard profiles.
We prefer to play together, but even if both can’t play one does the other is still there, on the sidelines as to say. We have wide variety of erotic taste, into a lot of fun things… We work our way in weeding out the ones that we know are players, pic traders, cyber friendship only type.
Then with the remaining “finalists” more chatting and learning about each other, we weed out the “no clicks” “not for us” “we not for them” and on down the line in hopes of finding
Patience is a virtue an we have met a lot of carp, in the ocean of possibilities and we know more to come, but with patience and diligence we will hook the ones worth keeping in the end.
Also I tend to remind myself we are looking for people we both have to agree on, bit harder to couples that will do it for both of us and us for them. Continue reading…