Is bigger better? I am talking about penis size

July 2nd, 2008

Which is better a small extra hyper vigorous dick or a large one?

This subject keeps coming back like a ghost. I am not going to tell you that the bigger is better, but I tell you that, the size does make different. There are many women who don’t like men who are hanging like a horse…. Because their vaginas are small, because the big penis cause pain and because men with smaller penis usually better lovers.

You have big cock or a small cock, you should remember, your penis is only one sexual organ from many. You also have finger, mouth and tongue and all of those organs not enough , there are million of sex toys are on the today’s market.

Don’t forget, the biggest sex organ is a human brain; you have to get your female partner into the mood, have to make her want to have sex… with other words you have to turn her on. When nothing else in your partner brain just SEX then the next thing is sex position. The right sex position can make a wonder…

There are a lot of well endowed men, who can’t give an orgasm via vaginal intercourse. In fact most women require only direct clitoral stimulation from you pelvic bone. And if you have an extra large cock then you just can’t do it, because from your 10 inches 3 are out of her pussy, so how will you massage her clit with your pelvic bone?

In these case you need to stimulate her clitoris “manually” or orally. So whatever you have, big or small penis with good love making technique and with little coordination, plus with some practice you should succeed in pleasing your female partner.

If you, or your female partner thing that your penis is not big enough, there are many ways to enlarge your penis. This can be done via penis enhancement, with bigger harder erection or can be permanent penis enlargement with a penis enlargement device. Yes it is true, it can be done! You can get this penis enlargement device absolutely free!

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Why do women start to swing?

June 29th, 2008

There are more swingers today, than at any other time in history. For many people, it is become a way of life. Online communities for swingers have sprung up on popular search engine like Yahoo, and a simple search reveals many erotic web sites are packed with photo ads placed by swingers.

There are large commercial erotic dating websites such as Friend Finder’s and it’s sister websites. It is very easy to find sex partners for casual sex, or if you are looking for pain and pleasure, the Alternative Sex Ads for you, but  you will find partner even for committed relationship there.

These swinging  and alternative sex related websites have millions of members (just from US then 20 million women, men and couple joined them).  You can find those members in every city Even in your neighborhood.

Then there are the independent adult dating websites, like Dating Sense (ran by our team).  It is doesn’t matter where you are looking for casual sex, with out women there is no way to have heterosexual casual sex, including threesomes and share or exchange partners.

Why do women start to swing?

You might think that there are more than enough articles are about this subject all over the internet. Well, you might be right, but as long as more females start to share and to be shared as a swinger that will make more articles coming out about it. First of all, I belief, most women have been introduced to swinging by their male partner. However, it is hard to believe, they would continue to do it, if they do not enjoy it.

Of course their permanent or marital  relationship is an important part of swinging, but swinging and love are two different categories. Just think about it. If people have sex only when they love each other, then they would not have sex very often.

So let’s go back to the first paragraph. Why do women start to swing?

At little higher  I stated it, most women are introduced to the lifestyle by their partner. I found the next message somewhere on the net. Please read it. It will help to understand what swinging is all about and why people do swing.

I am happily married woman (18yrs). We don’t have any sexual problems at all, it fact we are great together. About 5yrs ago I started having desires to have sex with other men that I knew. I just started to think how good it would be to be played with and to play with other men. I had a close single friend at this time. She used her sex for extra money. She would talk about men and how each one was different. I started to wonder and fantasize about this type of experience. I never wanted to do this behind my husbands back I wanted him included…. a threesome… me and two guys at once, while my husband watch it.

Finally I told him and to my surprise he agreed. I started with a friend and would have him come over to our house. I would flirt with him by wearing short skirts and very revealing tops. I would let my skirt ride up to the top of my tights and let him enjoy the sight also I would let him rub my legs. I would always become extremely turned on and very wet. After about two months of flirting I decide to go all the way, so one night I had my first threesome. It was great. I loved having two men at once.

I have continued with this for the past 5yrs and still love the thought of another man. My husband and I are closer than ever been before and our sex life has been made much better by this experience.

So once again, why do women start to swing?

In some couple’s cases sex became routine, or they just needed to spice things up. Lots of women fantasize about sex with 2 or more men. Three some, more some… They might miss something, and they think if something can be done by one man, might be done by two or more.

Women might start to swing for all kinds of different reasons. Those reasons are very important, because with out women there would be no swinging at all. Imagine a swinger’s club or swinger house party without women.

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Swinging or cheating?

June 26th, 2008

It is through sharing this act of love that two people learn to trust each other and love each other more. It is very hard to stay in a commited relationship where the sex life is not satisfying.

Usually, marriages do not work out because the lack sexual drives or have non-existent sex lives. That is the reason why people try to boost their sex drives. Sex is the answer to many problems that are affecting people of today.

Unsatisfied sex live is reason why a lot of men and women looking for sexual relationship outside of their marriage or permanent partnership. Also this is the reason why many people get into swinging.

I am believe that swinging is much more ethical than cheating. If you are living with someone, your partnership did not work out, you screwed up together, you should fix it together. It does not mean you have to get into swinging. Swinging is not for everyone. There are lot of way to fix a broken or to be broken partnership and swinging is one of them.

Swinging is for open minded people with strong sex drive. The hardest part to start. Specially very hard for men. Men usually like to have sex with other ladies, but they think, their wife should not think about other guys.

However if you are serious about spice up you sex life, to boost up your marriage with extra hot sex, to feel like a teenager again somehow you have to start, but how. How and when? Read our article on SwingersAffir.com

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Three cheers for swinging and occasional threesomes, sex parties!

June 19th, 2008

I got the next entry as a email from one of our website visitor. I hope you will enjoy it as much as I did… Please read it at next.

I can tell you I really enjoy occasionally screwing somebody besides my husband. In the beginning of our “lifestyle” I never thought I would. I had always thought that prior friendship or love were essential before I could enjoy sex with a man. But I have discovered it doesn’t necessarily make any difference. I don’t ever develop feelings of love or emotional ties with the guys I occasionally have.

I love my husband very deeply, and exclusively. But, even without the love/friendship component, the sex I have with most of these extra guys can still be quite good. It is often really great sex. As a younger woman, I always felt that you only had sex because you love your partner. I was wrong!

I have found that, just pure sexuality can be very beautiful. I think that often a purely physical side-relationship can be really good. Just like men have done for hundreds of years before we finally got the wisdom to join them…

Occasional sexual variety can be highly satisfying for women too. And, when our marital partner agrees to a shared plan of allowing each to occasionally experience such extra partners, it is far better than either party having potentially-disruptive side affairs.

Three cheers for swinging and occasional threesomes, sex parties!

Thanks for reading my email,

Sexy Angela

Well sexy, what can I say?  We have only one life and everyone should enjoy it as much as possible. If it’s include sex, go for it. It is include what ever you like to do, you should go for it, because you will hot have second chance.

Erotic fore play

June 14th, 2008

Erotic fore play is everything, and really everything, that is leads up to great sex and incredible orgasm. Of course sex is exist without foreplay, but if you would like to have and give and incredible orgasm, you have to begin with a very detailed fore play.

From the moment you and your partner decide toy have sex, all your think is about sex, but what you do and what you say is will contribute to the quality of sex, that you are going to have.

Let’s assume then the mood is there and you have started to play. Even if you know you are going to have sex you have to start to do the right things. And if you want to start it right, you should start with a very erotic fore play.

From the first move, from the first touch and from the first kiss, to the actual intercourse, there is the world of sensation, that non of them should be overlooked… All of those erotic sensation should be played in a timely manner and erotic details. Details that include, kissing, touching, oral sex, tity play and at the end intercourse.

If you want to have kick start in your fore play, you have to use all of your imagination and of course you need to know what you are doing. Knowledge is power in sex!

Find out how can you turn sex into incredible sex at next.

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How can I talk my wife into swinging?

June 10th, 2008

So you want to be a swinger? When can we start to swing, and how? The we stand for a man - woman couple.

Every now and then we get a question about how can I start to swing or how can I talk my wife into swinging.

Some open minded couple can start at anytime, but unfortunately some others never will be lucky enough to make a test run in this very erotic, open sexuality lifestyle. However if you are married or live in a long relationship with someone, there are some signs, that mean that, it is time to make some changes, for example start to spice up your sex life.

There are two ways to change your sex life. Change your routine with new erotic things. You can learn some sex tricks, new sex positions and you can learn and do a lot of things that you never did before. This is a very safe way to change and make sex life better.There is no any risk involved.

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The second is swinging. To taste the alternative lifestyle, share your very privet moment and body parts with others is change, isn’t it? If you do it right, it will spice up things in the bedroom. But to make this happen not easy. It is easy to dreaming about it, but hard to make it reality.

The first thing that you have to be sure, are you really want to do it? if you are a man, probably you said, of course, that is why I am here. Please read the second part of this paragraph too. Can you handle to know and maybe to see your wife or spouse having erotic fun, and maybe intercourse with other men? Men who might be better looking, younger then you are, and they might have bigger penis then yours and maybe they are better lover, better sex partners then you are…

If all of the above did not scare you a way, I have some tips for you. Those tips will help you. You can read them here.

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Swingers Sex. Is it exist?

June 6th, 2008

Just few days ago started a new TV show about swingers. This new sexy drama takes viewers back to the 1970s for a look at suburban households testing the new wave of sexual revolution, swinging, swingers  “key parties” throughout open marriages, and other erotic swingers open sex life related plays.

Of course there are a lot of critics published about it. And I red few of them. According to these critics, swinging is over. Swinging was very popular in the 70’s. Came fast and past by fast. Well I have to disagree. Non of those critic’s writer bothered to search how many swingers club exist today and how many registered members those club have.

Swinging is still exist, in fact millions of people, couples and singles swing and their numbers are getting bigger and bigger day by day. However there are only one things is changed. They do not call themselves swingers. They are not looking  swingers relationship, instead they are looking for casual sex or no commitment sex partners, or sometimes sex friends.

However people who are just curious about this lifestyle, still call them swingers. We can call what ever we want to call them… the name wont change anything. Swinging or casual sex, what is the difference?  You tell me…

Well at the end, if you would like to read a true based casual sex relationship related story visit our personal website, I just published one.

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Anal Play

June 6th, 2008

More and more women and men are into to the pleasure of anal play. The pest place to start is with external stimulation. You can use your fingers, lips, tongue or mouth.

Of course hygiene is a very important if you would like to play with anyone’s anus…

Butt play requires negotiation from both sex partner. For start, talk about it, make a deal and stick to that deal. If she is okay to play outside of her butt, you do not poke your finger in. If you do so, that was the last time when she let you to touch her golden hole.

Licking and massaging the anal ring is very pleasurable and with proper cleaning it is perfectly sanitary. If she does not mind if you go a little further and deeper, at first you just should stretch her butt hole. Go slow and she will love it!

If you are a woman and your guy let you play with his butt hole and if you happen to find her prostate, he will have the orgasm of his lifetime.

I have created an anal sex basic information page. Read it on SwingersAffair.com, or detailed anal sex info on video, and anal sex video guide visit our sponsor’s website, LoveCentria.

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Female - Male - Female Threesome

May 30th, 2008

Some of the three way sex involving two women and one man. This type of erotic team not that popular outside of the swingers world, but it can happen. In fact it happens often in a heat of the moment, after a wild regular party….

The elements are the same that makes appealing a threesome for a woman with two men. It is the thrill to receive erotic attention from two partners at once…

Having two pair of female hands to play on a man, having two set of female breast to suck on and two pussies to lick and bang is a lot of guy erotic dream.

There are a lot of bi sexual and bi curious women in our open sexuality world. The women become more assertive to sharing their erotic desires and men have become more opened their imagination to openly pursuing different varieties of sexual fulfillment. The concept of one man enjoying two women has grown in acceptance.

Many men find the idea of watching their wife to have erotic play with other woman very appealing. Even more appealing to participate in that erotic play. But getting your erotic fantasy reality, might not be that simple.

Would you like to double the pleasure? Are you looking for a female - male - female threesome? Your wife, her girlfriend and you. It sound very erotic… isn’t it? How can you have sex with both of them at the same time? Read the article on SwingersAffair.com

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Oral Sex

May 25th, 2008

In our today’s open sexuality world a lot of people loves oral sex. Swingers - non swingers love to receive and perform oral sex. People not just only loves it when someone go down on them, but they are openly talking about it. Before the Internet boom talking about oral sex was taboo. Well that is pass and we live in the present.

These days if you go down on someone, just to be sure you take your time. There is no rush needed. If you partner let you, or ask you perform oral sex on her / him, you should do it right. Drive your partner wild by lightly licking his/her genital then moving away on the body. When you finally kiss and lick yourselves back to the genital aria don’t leave until you lick your partner to an orgasm.

Well at down there you can do a lot of things. According to our survey 80% of men enjoy it during oral sex if their balls being licked and sucked. If you are a female to be sure you kiss and lick and suck your male partner balls and the whole length of his cock. If you know how to massage his prostate just do it. If you don’t, it this is a good time to learn it. He will have an incredible orgasm. Deep troth him, but be prepared, he might will cum into your mouth…

If you are a male take your time on your partner pussy. It take a female longer to reach an orgasm. Steady light pressure with your tongue help to make the tricks. Try to write the alphabet with your tongue on her clit. And don’t forget the anus area. Millions of nerves are there and they are very sensitive. You can try to apply light pressure with your jaw around there, or play with your finger over there and tongue fuck her.

If you are going to give her an oral orgasm, while tongue fucking her, she never will forget your golden tongue. Probably she will explain it to her girlfriend too, how good sex partner you are. And thesn you might have to bang all of her girlfriends too…

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